Treating Trauma (Pt.2)

Speaker: Bishop Dr. Robert A. Merriwether, Sr.
On today, the setting for our pastor’s message (a continuation from last Sunday) was in a teaching fashion versus heralding the Word of God! As aware, “All scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, reproof, correction and for training in righteousness.” II Timothy 3:16-17.
We are elated to know that our overseer has been called to a blessed work, taking the wonderful truths revealed in the Bible so that he may serve others!
In celebration of Black leaders (February being Black History Month), we have set aside time to honor them! But, we must remember that many of them (including Nelson Mandella) have experienced traumatic situations! Point: Their challenges could have been a step back or the catalyst for stepping forward! They conquered the latter by extinguishing or crushing the unspeakable!
Trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that can have a profound physical and emotional impact on a person. It has the ability to affect the natural and spiritual heart…It’s a mistreatment! It can be caused by a single event, such as a car accident; natural disaster and repeated exposure to “hair-raising” dilemmas--such as child abuse or domestic violence.
Sometimes, harm is not “what” happened but “when” it happened! There are incidents that are hard to deal with! Remember, in life, escaping predicaments are inevitable! The word, mistreatment, has a prefix meaning; e.g., “ill,” “mistaken,” “wrong,” “wrongly,” “incorrectly,” or simply “negating.” Another definition: It’s a treatment or expectation that was missed!
Medication: If a person missed his/her scheduled medicine, you can’t go back and administer it but you have to wait until the next time around! Meanwhile, said individual has to suffer from neglect or deal with the consequence that you infringed upon him/her!
In life, we can be deprived of love, affection, care; a returned favor, loyalty, etc. because, as told, of someone’s oversight/unconcern! Those preyed upon will not forget/forgive even if the subject is sorry for what occurred! Then, there are people who ignore the flare-up!
Wrongdoing can cause a person to worry and “wreck their brain” in trying to figure out why the pain! But, being disrespected can be corrected! We don’t want to hold grudges or malice in our heart or refuse a person’s call or visit. Of course, you should open up or receiving!
Although desponded and want relief, some folk, will try to continue with that same pattern! Nevertheless, if the offender want to make amends or move forward, do not push said one backward! “Cast it in the sea of forgiveness!” If you sow a recollection, you will reap a harvest of retaliation—to your own disadvantage!
We all have been wrong! Reiterating: Get out of the habit of holding ill feelings as a collateral! We should not enjoy someone to suffer because they made you suffer! That’s demonic and is not of God! Of course, it will crop up and cripple your mind!
The Most High does not devise pleasure of calamities! When you error, every transgression and disobedience will receive a just recompence of reward. Jeremiah weep because Israel had turned their back on the Almighty!
Jeremiah 3:14 articulates: “Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion.” Know that God is married to the unfaithful, idols, injustice, etc. He made a covenant with you! Psalm 51:17 mentions: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.”
Think of our sins/iniquities but the Savior didn’t divorce us! Do you want to cut off everyone that mistreated you? No way you can have a higher standard than the Lord! If that boss, spouse, relative, friend, et al come back with a contrite heart, receive him/her!
Romans 6:22 says: “But now being made free from sin, and become servants to God, ye have your fruit unto holiness, and the end everlasting life.” When one sins, he/she create an invoice which is death! That invoice has to be sanctified! God sent Jesus to purify the invoice! His will for rescuing me is also for the sake of others!
Trauma can rewire your heart from the scriptures, rationale, reason and process. Don’t be off course when you ask how long should I endure? I was young and my uncle molested me or, my mother abused me, etc.
How long should you hold on? Answer: How long should God hold on? Should He wait on you? Lord, help me…revive my heart! Yes, being battered is scary! There are clans who can handle mistreatment—and some cannot! It takes a special grace to endure injury or harm! Romans 6:23 states: “ For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
A number of us take tallies (or keep track of misfortunes)! You may have a permanent sharpie to take notes when someone scar you. The Bible emphasizes in Psalm 130:3: “If thou, LORD, shouldest mark iniquities, O Lord, who shall stand?”
Don’t be harsh due to agony! Let up and let go! God is calling! Yes, father, mother, police brutality; sister or neighbor have been cruel, but look unto God and move on! Lord: Give me a chance to talk kindly; have a conversation and not wanting revenge! Otherwise, your traumatic outcome will eat you up—not them! When they tried to make it right, you said no!
Further, release it and let it go! Forgive and move forward! Your blood pressure pills were scheduled at 8:00 p.m. Now, you’re having a stroke because someone miss the treatment! Repeat: Someone wounded you because God wants to use your experience that others may be helped or healed! A broken heart can break other hearts! I will not return wound for wound or evil for evil!
Let us pray for the devastated that they do not commit suicide, become depressed, etc. Our wounds are for Him! Cover them! Let us do the same! “My pain was not in vain” because I gave it to the Master! You talked to me like a dog, but it had to happened!
Be released for a future of favor in Jesus’ Name! Cry your last tears--it’s going to be all right! Yes, you’ve been bamboozled, lied to for no reason or whatever it may be! Don’t retain trauma! God can’t give us refuge if we renege on His trust! Thank Him for His love, grace and mercies! Take trauma to the altar and leave it there! Heavenly Father: Give us peace and understanding as we serve You!
In an era of confusion, unbelief & straddling of the fence, we need a minister of Truth…we need someone who can tell it like it is (thru God’s Word)…we need a God-fearing pacesetter! Pastor Merriwether: “Thou art the man!” Thank you for the vital and divine instructions from the Sacred Writ!
We also honor his beloved wife, 1st Lady Shania Merriwether. who is steadfast, immovable and always abounding in the work of the Lord!









